My favorite conversation openers to use when approaching women are funny conversation starters and natural conversation starters. There are other opening types that I make use of like observational/situational openers and on rare occasions, opinion openers. The following is an example of a funny opener and the other is a natural opener.
Funny opener: You can use this one anywhere and it goes something like this. When you approach her, you say, “My mom said I shouldn’t talk to strangers, but I know I’d regret it later if I didn’t come and say hi.” Because this is something we’ve all probably heard growing up as kids, she’ll likely find this adorable. The funny part in this arises from the fact that you obviously no longer need your mom’s permission to talk to her.
Now here’s the natural opener:
Again this is another one of those that you can use in just about any circumstance. You walk up to her, tell her what you were doing followed by the fact that you saw her and had to talk to her. So say for instance you are at an electronics store and you’re genuinely shopping for a computer or whatever item you like, then you see a girl you want to approach. Walk up to her and say; “Hi…I’m here looking for a computer at the moment but I saw you and just had to come over and say hello… My name is (whatever your name is); what’s your name?” She’ll find it flattering that you felt compelled to stop what you’re doing to come and talk to her.
Surely you’ve been in a situation in which you see an attractive girl you’d like to get to know but just couldn’t come up with what to say at the time. Long after the opportunity is gone, you suddenly come up with something that would have been a great way to get the conversation started for that particular situation.
Back in the days when I was clueless with women this happened to me more time than I can count. Nowadays I don’t have that problem as I can open at will and get a woman instantly intrigued by me. I also know how to keep a conversation going while building attraction. Most importantly, it feels fantastic to know that walking up to random girls to start a conversation isn’t something that phases me anymore. However, it’s not a characteristic I developed overnight. This came from relentless practice.